Player nur mit Play-Button

<script type="text/javascript">
function play() {
var player = document.getElementById('player');
player.Play();
}
</script>
<object data="http://irgendwas.de/name.mp3" type="audio/mpeg" width="1" height="1" id="player" style="visibility:hidden;">
<param name="src" value="http://irgendwas.de/name.mp3">
<param name="autostart" value="false">
<param name="PlayCount" value="1">
</object>

<a href="javascript:void(0)" onclick="play()"><img src="URL zum Bild" alt="play"></a>